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Never minimize a woman’s safety situation.
Be aware of resources and programs available.
Collaborate with other women’s advocates.
Respect her choice – it is important to support her empowerment.
Listen for the ways in which she resists violence.
Respect and support women who may leave an abusive relationship many times before they are out completely.
Can you identify signs that your partner is escalating, such as body language, or anything he says prior to becoming violent?
What sorts of things do you do when you are being abused? Where do you go?
How easy is it for you to leave the house?
Are there areas in your home that are safer than others?
When the perpetrator is abusing you, what areas of your body are most important to protect?
Is there a safe place in the community you can go to if necessary?
Is there something you can do or say to your children, so they know to get to a safe place?
Who can be a part of your safety plan so that they can get help for you?
Is there something you can do or say to someone that you trust to let them know you need help?
What role can professionals play in safety planning?
Can you keep some extra money somewhere for emergencies?
Do you think you will ever be interested in involving the police?